Focus on yourself now and don't mess up your priorities

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It seems that the transfer will be decided in August.
Since I can't build up my skills in my current workplace, I've always asked personnel to change.
It will be about two years.
I couldn't get my hope so much, so when I started changing jobs, the personnel manager finally accepted.
When you start to move, the surroundings also start to move.
It's a mystery.

The next workplace will take about two hours one way to commute, so I am planning to solo transfer.
Separately living with a wife whose relationship has deteriorated may improve.
After that, even if I wanted to get divorced, I started to think it was good.

Money is a concern when living separately.
I think it will be difficult to invest 20% of my annual income.
But when I think about my priorities, think things simple, and focus on my current self and what choices I can make in my future investment, The answer is simple.

I also noticed that I am investing so that I can respond to such changes, and that I am not doing anything to please the asset value.

Focus on yourself now and don't mess up your priorities.

Do you take time or money?
There were various variables in thinking, and I was desperate to solve the equation.
And, the element, what I want to do now, the priority, was missing in the formula.
Even if I set up a complicated formula, there is no answer.
I will think a little more simply.


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