I thought about self-deception

This is a great shock.

I knew that humans had a kind heart and an evil heart, but I tried to devote myself so that I had no evil heart.

It means that this was a waste of effort.

The biggest problem I have is that I am selfish.

First of all, it took me a long time to recognize that I was such a person.

And when I understand that I am such a person, I remember feeling very comfortable.

Among those worries, I have been worried about myself, who inevitably prioritizes myself over my family.

This is a point that is blamed every time I argue with my wife.

At one point, I told my wife that I wanted to prioritize myself over my family.

Of course, the relationship since then got worse.

However, my mind was very stable.

The theme this time is self-deception.

I have determined that self-deception is evil.

From this book, humans are self-deceptive.

This is a shock that blows away all my worries.

My relationship with my wife in trouble will improve if my wife understands this.

If each person is self-centered, then society cannot be established.

For society to proceed smoothly, we must be cooperative.

This means that on the surface, you have to hide your self-centered self.

Of course, this point is essential.

I realized that self-disclosure made me feel better and overdoed it.

It means that harm will come out.

In society, we have to use both the front and back while having a place to disclose ourselves.

I realized that this balance is essential.

I regret that I was a little too honest with my wife.

There was something wrong with using the front and the back properly, but if you understand that this is normal, it is still essential to use them properly.

We need to find a balance by understanding that human beings are self-centered, interacting well with society on the surface, and making peers who can disclose themselves.

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