All thanks to my father and children

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I've been fooled by hedonistic things all the time.
It was my father and children who made me notice it.
Had they not been there, I would have been addicted to the bog of pleasure.

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I am glad that I stopped gambling.
Gambling itself was a great time.
But it also sacrifices family time, one's own time, and valuable property.

The reward is just a little pleasure.
At that time, I didn't think I could quit.
But if I think about why I stopped, it's still an effect on children.

I had a strong feeling that I don't want children to grow up like this.
If I had no children, I would probably still be doing it.
My father was such a parent, so I couldn't allow me to do the same.

I wonder if that's all.
I've said various things that would be cool if I changed myself, but after all, it's all for children.
I can't be a cool father, but I don't want to be like my father.

Now that I'm not confused by the temptations of society, I've become interested in various things.
I feel like I was a kid.
I can interact with society with pure feelings.

I haven't done anything yet, but I'm delighted just because I feel like this.
I think lowering the time discount rate is the same as not being tempted by society.
So, I need an axis on how to use my time.

By overcoming gambling, I don't get confused.
Little by little, I think it has helped me to find something valuable.
It may seem awkward to get a lifelog, but I am very interested in time, so it's a lot of fun.

Various time-saving technologies are no longer confused by their price.
Given that, I think that I am now because of my father and children.

I realized that today.

Now, I think that I can now keep myself even if people surround me with high time discount rates.
If possible, I want to live surrounded by people with low time discount rates, and I would like to make such choices in the future.
And I want to continue to act proactively and take responsibility for my future.

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