You need the power of friends to change yourself

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I had been thinking about work a year ago, but now I am thinking about my future.
Since I've been thinking about work, my success was synonymous with success at work.
Most of my goals are related to my job, and I rarely think about myself.

About a year ago, I started to feel my growth limit at work, and I thought that I should think about the next thing but at an explanatory meeting of the online community "Katsuma-Juku" that I participated promptly.
I wasn't aware of it at the time, but I think I couldn't help but add another to my robust portfolio of relationships.

It's no exaggeration to say that everything was new every day since I started thinking about myself, which I have never faced since I joined the online community.
At first, however, I couldn't actively engage in conversation and make friends with community members.

After a while, I got a guide to the monthly meeting, and I wanted to see Kazuyo Katsuma once in a while, and I was curious about what kind of people belonged.
I felt a sense of loneliness as I was a newcomer among the people who talked to me in a friendly way, but at that time, I felt that if I could make friends with these people with intuition, a different world would open up.

It's been a year since then, and I've had more connections with the members, and now I've been forced into a corner of my job, and I feel very free.
I was able to act for a while because of the nudge from my friend, who is a member.
I wonder what would have happened if I hadn't joined the online community at that time.

I only thank my friends.


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