Escape from perfectionism

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I try to do it all.
I take it for granted.
I can see that I can't do it all.
But I was not thinking.
I will work in the order in which we received the work or in the order in which the deadline is close, and when the deadline approaches, I will finish in a hurry.

I know that priority is essential.
I'm working with priority.
But even if the priority is low, I think I have to work.
However, low priority jobs have not been touched.

It is said that you only have to do what is essential.
However, I'm concerned about the details.
If I don't have the proper appearance, you like to trip me up.
Then, time is taken to a place that is not important, and productivity is further reduced.

My nature is an easy-going person.
Although there are times when it seems to be a little serious, it is a cliché that "It is good for this kind of thing."
Surrounded by perfectionism, I was brainwashed by working with someone who could not fail.
I know this is not good, but I am stuck.

Indeed, it has been more than a year since I realized that I would not be happy if I kept doing this.
It's no longer embarrassing to fail, and my commitment to the company is disappearing.
I can now show myself inside and express my feelings.
It's almost time for me to spend the rest of my life, so I will only do what is important to me.
To do so, keep thinking about what is important and throw away what is not essential.

Escape from perfectionism.

It has not been easy to break this brainwash since I have been training for a considerable amount of time.
Gradually return to an easy-going person and become a person who works hard only on what is essential.
Even if you like to trip me up, I don't know.
Let's stop accepting any more.


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